A Living Will - do you have one and what is yours?

hopeforhappiness

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I opened this important issue on an appropriate forum a long time ago and got some very angry and irrational responses. As in trying to derail it.
This is NOT an encouragement to assisted suicide.
Living Wills could even be used to prevent the shortening of life in hospitals.
A doctor said to me that we need to all be honest and realistic about decisions made in hospital not to extend life, made just in order to release beds.
Because medical science certainly has the means to overturn nature (and the will of God?), in extending consciousness well beyond the body's ability to sustain itself.
What are your concerns about 'end-of-life' decisions?
 

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My wife and I went to an "elder lawyer" (but we're not quite elderly), and had him draw up all the papers that our descendants would need. The "living will" is known by other names (which I forget), but mine essentially says that if I'm terminal, pull the plug. I don't fear death, but I do fear being in pain, so pump me full of morphine and let me say goodbye.
 
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I've been putting mine off, but going to get that DNR.
DNR is not typically something you'd do until you're in bad shape. It could stop people from resuscitating you in accidents where you'd recover fine. A real living will goes into more detail about the circumstances in which things like resuscitation should be done.
 
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For an orientation to the issues, see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Advance_healthcare_directive. There are lots of samples online, but not all may follow the best models. And there are state laws involved, so you probably want to check what is appropriate for your state. As usual, it's best to involve an attorney, probably the same one who is doing your will, but you can certainly find samples for doing it yourself. The simplest thing is probably to designate someone to make decisions for you if you are not capable of it. However in that case you'd need to have detailed discussions with them about your wishes.
 
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