Domestic Violence Situation **Trigger Alert - Abuse issues**

Hidden101

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So I am trapped at home with an Aunt who has a major psychiatric issue - she has been violent toward me emotionally.
So I am going to try to get her committed, or at least do something about her; get her out of my hair.
Can you please pray for me, that I remain on top of this situation and it gets better.

Physical
I have been threatened with a knife.
I have had objects smashed in front of me.
She has been attacking me with noise pollution - loud music at midnight.

Emotional
I have been compared to my abusive grandfather.
I have been called names.
I have been yelled at.
I have been threatened with rape.
I have been threatened with death.
She has been saying that she cannot talk to me - but she can talk to everyone else.
She has been saying that I do not pay my way - I do pay my way.
She has been saying that I do nothing around the house - perhaps she may have a point - but she does not do as much as she pretends that she does.
She has said that I need psychiatric care - perhaps I need counselling.

I am struggling to stay on top of this while trying to complete an overdue thesis as well.

Thank-you for your prayers. Please create a prayer chain for me if you wish - feel free to mention me at your local church, etc.

I am calling a stop to multi-generational abuse and I need all the help that I can get.

*Praise Report - somewhat*
Also - I did post around 20 days ago about her homeless friend being here. Eventually he found accomodation in a hostel. However - he grew increasingly paranoid when my Aunt was away from him, he volunteered to go back into the mental hospital to fix up his paranoia.
 
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Praying...for you....There is a mental health forum here that may offer some advice, also maybe there is one for care takers... if you think it necessary to your advantage, record audio from your computer or smart phone and pixs/video's that may help your cause to have them committed. Praying for the mentally ill Aunt dear soul. 7a1e10e6f3630de83ce30df6f0cf01dc.jpg 12316533_10153729356428864_4963531919511493314_n.jpg palm-gods-hand-inscribed.jpg
 
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Thanks for sharing, Hidden101. It saddens me to hear about all the abuse that you have endured. How blessed your aunt is to have someone like you care for her! I will pray that she will receive help that she needs to recover and that your relationship with her will be one of mutual affection.I would recommend browsing through resources that Focus on the Family has regarding relationships with abusive family members and how to heal and move forward from the pain from that relationship. I also hope that you have a strong church family to support you in their prayers and wise counsel. God is faithful, good, and wise - He will take care of His children and walk with them through trials. I'll be remembering you in my prayers.
 
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I do understand what you are going through, I went through the same thing with a former family member and being accused of stuff is not enjoyable. I was abused by this former family member and she is still abusing others, I just pray her children will see that she needs a lot of help.

Praise the Lord for the friend getting the help he needs.

Lord, move what needs to be moved in this situation. Let no harm come to Hidden101 and let them be protected by you Father. Show the aunt what she does wrong and that her abuse comes to an end soon. I ask for peace, comfort and safety for Hidden101, that they can go on with no worries and be able to live life without any type of abuse. I pray for this, in Jesus name, Amen.
 
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Praying for your protection, and that God grants you extraordinary wisdom, discernment, clarity, and favor in all that you do, and praying that doors of safety and blessings open to you. Father may it be so, in Jesus name, amen.
 
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Praying for your protection, and that God grants you extraordinary wisdom, discernment, clarity, and favor in all that you do, and praying that doors of safety and blessings open to you. Father may it be so, in Jesus name, amen.
Praying in agreement to the Father for you...
 
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Thank-you. I am keeping in close contact with her psychiatrist. Her psychiatrist must have told her that I am contacting him or something - she is at loss as to why I am contacting him! She keeps on saying that I should butt out of her business, that I have no idea what she is going through.... Well, maybe I do not have any idea what she is going through - but one thing is for sure, her actions have traumatised me.
 
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If there's a way for you to help her Whilst keeping yourself safe, do it. God has blessed her with someone like you that regardless of how hostile she's being towards you, is still there.

If you are in danger of any sorts, she won't be able to get the proper help you are able to offer. So please, keep that in mind.

Joining in with prayers:groupray:
 
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