Forgiveness.
If you continue to have someone violate you when they aren't around. You are not the one in control. They are.
The child didn't violate anyone. The child is a product of that violation. But he or she isn't a violation to anyone.
That's just it. It is an innocent child. At what point did the child do anything?
Every single point? Let's be clear here - during the course of a pregnancy, that child significantly changes a woman's body chemistry, appearance, hormonal balance, et cetera. Having a child makes you a
very different person in a lot of respects. Not to mention there's a non-trivial risk involved.
Beyond that, the insistence that this is the case
even in the case of rape is particularly gross. Imagine that you, against your will, are bound down and surgically connected to a midget with a serious medical disorder. He needs to use your kidneys, and if you remove him before the treatment is finished, he's going to die. I somehow get the feeling you'd probably object
quite vigorously to being told that you could not legally detach yourself from this obnoxious, painful, sickening (in a literal sense; he will in fact make you physically ill, much like the variety of medical complications that pregnancy cause) nuisance.
And yet, would it not be the case that doing so would be murder, according to your logic? The
only substantial difference here is that the midget is not a child, and last I checked, people continue to have the right to life after they leave the womb, no?
So, there is NO excuse for killing a Child, at all.
There's also no excuse for violating a woman's right to bodily sovereignty. And here's the thing - that "child"?
It's a mass of cells lacking most human functions, thoughts, feelings, the ability to feel pain, et cetera. Whereas the woman is a thinking, breathing, conscious, cognizant human being. So maybe you can understand my distaste with violating her rights for the sake of the rights of a clump of cells. After all, she can just make another one.
From Wikipedia:Among competing hypotheses, the one with the fewest assumptions should be selected.
Would you care to explain why "women have less access to birth control" has more assumptions than "women are just having more children"?