- Jan 22, 2011
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I know this is a singles forum but some of us may be widows or divorcees and so have been married.
But as we are all singles, I want to discuss different aspects of singleness.
For example, I have friends/church sisters who are divorcees and others that are widows.
I was thinking how to relate to them, as even though I'm single, I don't have children for example. I get annoyed sometimes that, widows and divorcees can be quite needy.
And sometimes these needs are legitimate and other times its not a need but more like a complaint that I can't do anything about.
Thinking on this widows have my sympathy because their spouse has died and thus they are solo parent.
But often divorcees or separated couple say they are solo parent even when they aren't - eg they are co-parenting with their ex. I don't think they have a right to complain or place burdens on other people when they made wrong choices or lack forgiveness to their partner.
What do you think? What does the Bible say?
But as we are all singles, I want to discuss different aspects of singleness.
For example, I have friends/church sisters who are divorcees and others that are widows.
I was thinking how to relate to them, as even though I'm single, I don't have children for example. I get annoyed sometimes that, widows and divorcees can be quite needy.
And sometimes these needs are legitimate and other times its not a need but more like a complaint that I can't do anything about.
Thinking on this widows have my sympathy because their spouse has died and thus they are solo parent.
But often divorcees or separated couple say they are solo parent even when they aren't - eg they are co-parenting with their ex. I don't think they have a right to complain or place burdens on other people when they made wrong choices or lack forgiveness to their partner.
What do you think? What does the Bible say?