Need advice and or information please

All my life I've witnessed spiritual things couldn't keep count if I tried.
I hardly care for them although sometimes they've been informative and helped me understand ALOT about people.
Anyway I've had to go through spiritual attacks don't know why they come for me I've no interest in spiritual dabblings I have god and jesus case closed they can never hurt me they just try to mess with me. I don't indulge anything other than my faith and connection with god and jesus for guidance so it's not like I purposely make myself a target because I have no desire to be a spiritually gifted pro or anything....
I often get small glimpses of anything/ anyone/anytime that I don't even consciously remember I just think that I might recall it when or if I need but my conscious mind is still confused or thankfully unaware lol I don't know if that makes sense.
Anyhow right now I'm just hoping that the right person maybe able to tell me why a spirit of some kind came not long ago watching me in my sleep it was like a grey cloud of smoke not huge not bad not good just observing me, I think the holy spirit let me know I was being watched. My daughter was sleeping in my room too and she woke to it and saw it as well she didn't tell me until almost a month later (this is what scares me, I've a bit of sadness about that because I don't want either of my kids to endure things I've had to make sense of if sense is even possible). When it happened I knew it was observing me deeply and she moved in her sleep it got a fright like it was caught but I thought the surprise was at me so in that very short moment it was distracted from searching me for something??? by her movement, knowing it was sprung it disappeared through the roof like slithery grey smoke. My thoughts immediately turn to spiritually covering my children and they seemed to be fine, content, neither of them stirred, I quickly talk with god ask for their covering and return to sleep forgetting the whole ordeal because it was a typical weird [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] moment among many that idgaf for....
So I thought, until my daughter bought it up during conversation as she tells me she saw a figure at the end of my bed watching me I'm telling her it was probably the towel on the door, she actions the place and way she saw it further so I tell her it would've been the robe on the hook or shadow through the bathroom window of the tree. She is adamant at this point I keep talking her down but once she describes how it slithered through the roof and disappeared I knew what she was talking about. So I asked alright if this thing you think you saw was real what was it doing? she says it was watching you then it looked at me and flew off like this (makes waving motions with her arms) through the roof. She wasn't scared, she said it wasn't bad but it wasn't good either she didn't know what it was doing. So if anyone out there might know or understand different spirits, classes of spirits etc and their purposes I'd be interested now to know what it wanted. Or if anyone understands this whole situation it would be good to make some sort of sense of it all. Why me, why has my daughter seen something? what is this thing I've always gone through. My whole life and I still don't understand it's so frustrating all I ever do is pray but sometimes not hearing god be straight and clear with me gets me feeling helpless!! I have no control in anything! I didn't ask for anything! I'm angry about it always have been. I managed to block it out well but as I get older it gets stronger how can I keep it down or close it off? Should I begin to explore it? will that bring me conscious peace? how do I even do that?.... There's too much and then all the concerns about my daughter now being involved I swear I wouldn't even be looking for answers right now if she hadn't seen anything I hate this..... Actually I do find peace in the lord if I seek it hard enough I guess I'm hoping for an easier way

cool story ... I get the lord will impart the answers I seek in his time and in the meantime I must suffice with his rest and I'm falling short by seeking answers I don't think I could get from man. It's an impossible ridiculous situation really that at the end of the day has no real significance and doesn't have to any impact at all in life. However I still have this need to know in full detail the in's and out's of this specific encounter because out of a million times this one time involved one of my children. I've always prayed for their covering, to be completely hidden from these annoying things that happen to me. I also pray for him to block transference for them, in my culture and many others I suppose; people throw things on you, that's how we describe it or you just naturally absorb what's around you. Energies which affect feelings and sometimes physicality, good ones are ok but there are ill willed so I constantly pray over them. Asking god to cleanse them of any and create a spiritual barrier. Right now it feels like he's allowed my daughter to be exposed to this? I can't help but know it's my fault. I've felt ill will towards others who've taken advantage of me or others. I think I've hexed a few people but recently I hexed someone and didn't regret it, I never took it back. I can't even remember the details but I remember telling my daughter that this person will reap what they sow. I think this may have something to do with it. I followed up with teaching her the exact opposite of what I was feeling tho. Telling her never to wish bad on others even if they do you wrong because it weakens the light in you and it will be harder for you to hear god, mind you if god wants to reach someone he can but it's harder for them to hear and see him and his works around us..... all the while I sat their feeling the opposite without one thought of regret..... idk if anyone has thoughts on that.... I think I have my answers go to the throne bro. Still like to know what that weird spirit was tho if it wasn't bad or good then what??? so weird

I think every spirit that makes themselves known is bad lol they're not always but I'm on guard I don't need that weird [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] around me..... Usually when bad ones flee you get a sense of their anger, hatred, jealousy, resentment and or sickness as they leave. But this one just hurried away it permeated only haste and it didn't scare or startle my daughter one bit. You can repeat feelings are deceptive but so are our brains and our hearts, everything about us can't always be trusted. People can even twist and manipulate the bible to deceive.
I don't know what the 'occult' your referring to is. I assume you mean some sort of witch crap which has no steed with me. When I say 'hexed' I meant like cursing someone, I remembered today it was for a dude driving erratically to have an accident but I meant it. I really willed it and that is a terrible thing to feel so I know I need to spend more time with god. In the past I've claimed bad things over peoples heads but have retracted in after thought out of pure care for the person the type of care for others we are supposed to genuinely have.