Don't give your mother-in-law any excuse (like cuddling) to not like you.I know I have to listen my husband but I also am living in his mother's house so I want to respect her as well. I cuddled with him anyway that night when his mom was in the room and I could tell she was uncomfortable so I stopped. I have hugged her plenty of times and she is even affectionate with my husband. (So to be honest I don't see why me kissing my own husband is a big deal when she kisses him on the cheek.) I just feel like maybe that's somehow different because she's being affectionate in a "motherly way" and I'm not? I don't know but I have to respect her and I just want there to be peace in her home while I'm here. So if that means my husband and I have to go outside to hug/kiss then so be it because I'm never going to stop loving my husband for anyone.
The relationship dynamic between a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very difficult. You will be dealing with her for the next 40 years. Don't get impatient you can wait, this is a long-term relationship and it is worth extra attention.
Many mothers have issues letting a child go and the hardest thing if you are trying to let go so they can move on with their lives is to see them give affection to someone else. She is probably just not use to it yet. I wouldn't push it. Find a way around it like walks.
There is no training for us in relationships, especially life-long ones we marry into. So we wing it, but do so on the side of caution.
That's my advice.
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