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Whether its mcdonalds or applebees or some other type of a restaurant.
I get annoyed when this subject comes around only because my view differs from a lot of people's i think.
To me, in any type of relationship, you should Share the bill, split it down the middle or, let one pay for the meal one time, and the other pay for the meal another time. It's fair and even that way.
A lot of people think that if you're dating someone, the guy should always pick up the bill but why? What's the reasoning for that? I know what the reasoning for it was back in the 1940's/1950's but today?? Women are fighting for equality yet, they still hold back on many things including who should pay the bill, etc. etc. To me, it seems like women often think things should be handed to them for one reason or another.
A couple of months ago my sister yelled at me for this saying I have a twisted way of thinking. Maybe I do but, I feel my way of thinking is correct.
My sister thinks that whomever she's dating has to pick up the bill whenever they go out to eat. She also believes if she's not "living" w/ them, there's no reason for her to split for and pay for the apartment rent w/ him. At the time, she was "living" w/ her bf 5 outta 7 days of the week yet she said she isn't living w/ him so she refused to help him pay rent. I don't agree w/ her way of thinking. I think if she wants respect from her partner, to help him out if or when he asks and if/when they go out to eat, she should volunteer to pay once in awhile.
Not even out to eat, but any activities. To the movies, apple picking, whatever else. I don't think its right or fair to make the guy always pay especially if both parties are working. I think both should pay their own way or split it or something.
One of my friends' friends asked my one friend if he thinks I'm this way bc these other guys complain about how their gf complain that their guys don't always want to pay for them. My one friend responded to his statement by saying, this is how I was when he first met me 5 years ago and yes, I've been like this for as long as I can remember.
No one taught me to think this way but, I just feel this is the right thing to do.
What are your thoughts?
Is my way of thinking twisted or is it correct for how things are today in this world?
I get annoyed when this subject comes around only because my view differs from a lot of people's i think.
To me, in any type of relationship, you should Share the bill, split it down the middle or, let one pay for the meal one time, and the other pay for the meal another time. It's fair and even that way.
A lot of people think that if you're dating someone, the guy should always pick up the bill but why? What's the reasoning for that? I know what the reasoning for it was back in the 1940's/1950's but today?? Women are fighting for equality yet, they still hold back on many things including who should pay the bill, etc. etc. To me, it seems like women often think things should be handed to them for one reason or another.
A couple of months ago my sister yelled at me for this saying I have a twisted way of thinking. Maybe I do but, I feel my way of thinking is correct.
My sister thinks that whomever she's dating has to pick up the bill whenever they go out to eat. She also believes if she's not "living" w/ them, there's no reason for her to split for and pay for the apartment rent w/ him. At the time, she was "living" w/ her bf 5 outta 7 days of the week yet she said she isn't living w/ him so she refused to help him pay rent. I don't agree w/ her way of thinking. I think if she wants respect from her partner, to help him out if or when he asks and if/when they go out to eat, she should volunteer to pay once in awhile.
Not even out to eat, but any activities. To the movies, apple picking, whatever else. I don't think its right or fair to make the guy always pay especially if both parties are working. I think both should pay their own way or split it or something.
One of my friends' friends asked my one friend if he thinks I'm this way bc these other guys complain about how their gf complain that their guys don't always want to pay for them. My one friend responded to his statement by saying, this is how I was when he first met me 5 years ago and yes, I've been like this for as long as I can remember.
No one taught me to think this way but, I just feel this is the right thing to do.
What are your thoughts?
Is my way of thinking twisted or is it correct for how things are today in this world?