Thanks for sharing everyone.
It's always hard to tell what people might not understand about me.
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@leothelioness , I'm also an introvert. It's not something I understood, let alone was proud of, until recent years. I think extroverts have the hardest time understanding how an introvert functions and so we tend to be seen as antisocial, broken, or socially inept. I actually enjoy interacting with others, preferably in small groups or one-on-one. If you're willing to engage in deep conversation, then you may very well have yourself a loyal friend for life. It takes a biblical level of misconduct for me to cut anybody off, and it's only happened maybe 1-2 times in my entire life. I've learned in recent years that introversion is an untapped asset in the American populous, so I'm glad to know I have a resource that I can use to my advantage in the workplace.
-In the words of Tony Stark, I have "breathtaking anger management skills". I really don't get mad much, I keep a very even-keel. If I do, I just give myself some alone time and let it cool off, it usually doesn't take long.
-I'm a creative type, I like to develop ideas for stories, write them, film them and generally try to create compelling works of art (both fiction and non fiction). Some people think that makes me some kind of softy or less than a man. My experience has proven otherwise.
-Being a divorced man under 30, I think people assume I'm some kind of scumbag. That maybe I cheated on my ex-wife or was abusive or something like that. I don't know if it's the beard or what. Anyway, none of that ever happened. We spent three years of a four-year marriage trying to make it work. Counseling, trying to change different things, etc. Ultimately she asked me to leave and had a new boyfriend within a week (whom she slept with). So in the big picture I feel vindicated over the reasons for which we divorced, I think it holds up to scrutiny. She's not a bad person, she's actually a wonderful lady who's confused on a lot of issues, and I am not a divorced scumbag.
-I come with a great family (my parents 35th anniversary was ~10 days ago), who instilled excellent ethics, morals and values into me. I'm polite, I have good manners and I'm an excellent dining companion. I think my affirmation of a moderate worldview makes people believe that I'm either some kind of redneck slob, or a pretentious jerk. I'm neither of those things.
-I'm from Northern California (no, the
real Northern California). Up here it's actually a highly conservative area dominated by agriculture and industry. I'm three hours from the Bay Area. I was raised very conservative, but I do not lean towards either extreme anymore. I think balance is critical if we're going to move forward as a society and end the polarization.
Sorry I think I strayed off topic there...