So, a cousin in our family is getting married next year, and she has set the wedding date on Orthodox Holy Saturday. The entire family is Catholic (anywhere from totally nominal to fairly pious), and while she said she tried to avoid this date for us, it's what worked out for the majority of guests. The wedding is pretty far from us, so either my wife will travel, or both of us, or possibly both of us with three small kids (NOT the preferred option!)
So what to do? The hard-line answer would be to put Pascha first and simply pass on the entire wedding, and hope they understand. In reality this will surely cause resentment among the family. The moderate (but unrealistic?) answer would be to go there, eat absolutely nothing while surrounded by a huge wedding party and tables overflowing with food (or maybe snack on celery if necessary), then leave when everyone else is heading out for the after-party to attend Pascha at a church nearby where we've never attended and don't know anybody. The lame answer would be to just do as the Romans do (which is kind of funny, since they're Catholic )
Has anyone else been in this situation before?
So what to do? The hard-line answer would be to put Pascha first and simply pass on the entire wedding, and hope they understand. In reality this will surely cause resentment among the family. The moderate (but unrealistic?) answer would be to go there, eat absolutely nothing while surrounded by a huge wedding party and tables overflowing with food (or maybe snack on celery if necessary), then leave when everyone else is heading out for the after-party to attend Pascha at a church nearby where we've never attended and don't know anybody. The lame answer would be to just do as the Romans do (which is kind of funny, since they're Catholic )
Has anyone else been in this situation before?