Help. I need prayer. I am 38 years old and I have never even been on a date, much less had a girlfriend. This is something that torments me to the utmost and I obsess over it. Everything I do (though I think everyone is like this....although I could be wrong) revolves around winning love from a woman. What woman, I don't know. I mean everything. From what books I read to my daily activities to my very thinking process. I feel that I am worthless, ugly, and that no woman will ever love me. I am most definitely not gay, though most people think I am because I never hang out with women (you know....because of the whole fear of rejection thing). I am insanely jealous of seeing any couple in public. I cannot overstress how obsessive and neurotic I am about this whole thing. What makes it even worse is that I think God doesn't understand. After all, the Pauline Epistles clearly imply that marriage is merely tolerated rather than positively recommended (did not St. Paul say, "...but I'd rather you be such as I am {that is, celibate}?"). And therefore God doesn't really care about this issue of mine. Not only am I extremely lonely and unfulfilled but I think I am the most worthless person on the planet because no woman loves me or values me. Furthermore, I think I am the only person on the planet that suffers from this problem. I think about suicide on a daily basis but the only thing that stops me is fear of eternal hellfire. Please pray.