- Feb 25, 2006
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I met this one lady about a year ago. Her bf works with my best friend.
Over the last several months, she's been calling/messaging me on facebook/cell phone just complaining to me about her bf and how she's unhappy, etc. etc. I initially didn't mind listening to her but, after I give her advice, she ignores what i tell her always and just repeats and repeats and repeats herself. Idk what else to do or tell her and its getting very frustrating.
Yesterday she sent me over 30 messages thru facebook and today, she's already sent me 12 messages.
I've tried telling her, if she doesn't like being there w/ him, move out. She says she has nowhere to go but she has family. I told her to go live w/ her family and she doesn't want to bc then she'll be far away from her job and her friends. So, I said, you need to make a choice. Stay w/ him and be unhappy and go live w/ your family for now and be happy. She seems to want to stay w/ her bf so she'll be close w/ her job and friends.. Shrugs.... yet she keeps repeating how unhappy she is and how she doesn't like his attitude. I don't know what to say or do for her.
She also constantly asks me what i'm doing every single day and other things like that. It's like she gives me a play by play of what she does everyday.
Its frustrating. I don't want to be mean, but, I also understand she wants someone to talk to but, i don't know. Its getting on my nerves. I tell her I'm busy and have work to do yet she still tries to call and talk to me. I've been ignoring her calls bc now is a very very busy time for me w/ work.
Over the last several months, she's been calling/messaging me on facebook/cell phone just complaining to me about her bf and how she's unhappy, etc. etc. I initially didn't mind listening to her but, after I give her advice, she ignores what i tell her always and just repeats and repeats and repeats herself. Idk what else to do or tell her and its getting very frustrating.
Yesterday she sent me over 30 messages thru facebook and today, she's already sent me 12 messages.
I've tried telling her, if she doesn't like being there w/ him, move out. She says she has nowhere to go but she has family. I told her to go live w/ her family and she doesn't want to bc then she'll be far away from her job and her friends. So, I said, you need to make a choice. Stay w/ him and be unhappy and go live w/ your family for now and be happy. She seems to want to stay w/ her bf so she'll be close w/ her job and friends.. Shrugs.... yet she keeps repeating how unhappy she is and how she doesn't like his attitude. I don't know what to say or do for her.
She also constantly asks me what i'm doing every single day and other things like that. It's like she gives me a play by play of what she does everyday.
Its frustrating. I don't want to be mean, but, I also understand she wants someone to talk to but, i don't know. Its getting on my nerves. I tell her I'm busy and have work to do yet she still tries to call and talk to me. I've been ignoring her calls bc now is a very very busy time for me w/ work.