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SnowyMacie
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As someone who has been cheated, and the cheatee (someone the cheater cheated with) tell the boyfriend. It may be harder ar first, but will work out for the better in the long run.
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quietpraiyze
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Why are you friends with this person? I would think that by being friends with this person that you are co-signing her behavior especially since you said she has been confronted and continues her behavior. If you know the boyfriend and are friends with him then I would think you are dishonest to smile in his face knowing what you know. I would say if you are friends with the boyfriend then tell him. If you're not friends with him, I would probably say leave it alone and mind your own business but I would terminate the friendship with her regardless.
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I second what everyone has already said. Definitely tell the boyfriend and rethink your relationship with that girl.
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Jack of Spades
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If I knew the guy, I would tell him. But if you don't know him, there is a chance that he doesn't believe you. Which in turn would put you in a very bad place. Just something to consider. Do you know someone who's friends with the guy and whom you could hire to do the dirty job?
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Messy
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I wouldn't be friends with her anymore and send him an email or something.
Once when I was 16 I was on a holiday and a guy was flirting with me. I liked him a bit, would have just hung out with him if he asked. A boy walks up to me and says: Watch out. That guy wants sex. He's telling people filthy stuff about you.
I was so grateful he told me. Really great guy.
Once when I was 16 I was on a holiday and a guy was flirting with me. I liked him a bit, would have just hung out with him if he asked. A boy walks up to me and says: Watch out. That guy wants sex. He's telling people filthy stuff about you.
I was so grateful he told me. Really great guy.
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Tom Mix
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In general I would mind my own business and say nothing but in this case you are dealing with a Christian brother so things are different because we being of one body need to protect each other.
I would set down with your male Christian friend and tell him all that you know. If you have never seen the woman sleep around on him I would not say that she is sleeping around on him but I would tell him the parts that you do know as fact such as flirting and going out behind his back if she is doing so.
We as Christians have a connection to each other so it is our duty to look out and protect each other.
I would set down with your male Christian friend and tell him all that you know. If you have never seen the woman sleep around on him I would not say that she is sleeping around on him but I would tell him the parts that you do know as fact such as flirting and going out behind his back if she is doing so.
We as Christians have a connection to each other so it is our duty to look out and protect each other.
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