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I was a long term member of another forum which got a little too hostile for me to want to post there any longer. It became open season on believing Christians by some of the atheists and agnostics who were members there. So I have enjoyed a summer away from all of that. It was a great summer. Lots of time outdoors. But now it's autumn. Some of the other refugees from that forum have asked me about starting a new forum, but I'm not all that interested in reinventing such a thing, particularly if it already exists. Starting a forum is actually technically complex, not to mention the day to day of running such a thing. I am too faint of heart for that. So here I am, toe in the local water, to see what this forum is like. Just reading posts it seemed OK so I thought I would try a bit of interaction. If it goes well ....

I am a Catholic, a Christian that can say the Nicene Creed (and the Apostle's Creed and the Quicunque Vult) without mental reservation. I pray and read the Bible. I do like to discuss matters of the faith and am especially happy to see thoughtful expression of differences. The less thoughtful, the less interested. What's that overused old word? Dialogue? Yeah. If someone is interested in that, I can get interested. Something where both can grow, hopefully in the same direction. I am in no way perfect and can sometimes be snippy or snide or ... what's the word ... snarky. Oh but never here. I totally promise. At least for now.

I guess one thing I would like to hear about is ideas on educating Christian youth in our rapidly changing society. My father was a public school teacher and he insisted on my brother and I being educated outside of the public school system. I went to a private school and remained Catholic. He went to a Catholic school and now never darkens the door of a Catholic church. My children went to Catholic schools and both my wife and I were well pleased with the particular schools we sent them to. Both of them have strong faith. Now my daughter has her oldest in a Catholic preschool. I know a person who started a Christian school, also folks who home school, folks who teach in the public schools, folks whose children attended or attend public schools. I know of good public schools, a range of Catholic schools from superlative to deficient, and a bunch of charter and private schools of varying philosophies.

Oh, and having watched pope Francis navigate the minefields in Cuba and at the White House I have a new respect for him. His visit to the Little Sisters of the Poor in Washington right after the White House was rich beyond words. At the White House president Obama spoke glowingly to Francis about religious freedom. The Little Sisters seem to experience the weight of the administration a bit differently than Obama would have us believe. So Francis dropped in on them to encourage them. Bravo.
 

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Welcome!

Was the last forum you were on one that you created?
No. I've never created a forum before. It was a venerable old forum that will remain nameless which I was a member of for many years. Now it is a shadow of it's old self. Several atheists and agnostics made life rather miserable there and it dwindled. One of the other 'refugees' asked me to consider starting up a new forum. But that's easier said than done. There is nice forum software out there but even for an old Linux hand like me I wouldn't say it would be easy. Then there would be the more 'human' skills like running and seeding and paying for a forum. Not something to take on without serious forethought. But why do it at all if something suitable already exists? That's what I am exploring now.
 
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I gotchya!

Yeah, I've never started a forum, but have been a member of marketing and real estate forums. Definitely easier said than done to create one!

Whelp, I believe you found the right place. :)
 
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Welcome to CF!

Depending on what sort of interaction you are hoping for, you might like to visit our Traditional Theology subforum. It is one of the more laid-back areas in terms of polemics, though we are still finding our way a bit in there. We have some great members who belong to a variety of Traditional Churches.

There is also a forum dedicated to Catholics - One Bread One Body, but I am not so familiar with that one. We do welcome Catholic visitors in the EO forum as well, The Ancient Way.

Have a look around, and let us know if we can answer any questions. Again, Welcome, and we are glad you've joined us!
 
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Welcome to CF!

Depending on what sort of interaction you are hoping for, you might like to visit our Traditional Theology subforum. It is one of the more laid-back areas in terms of polemics, though we are still finding our way a bit in there. We have some great members who belong to a variety of Traditional Churches.

There is also a forum dedicated to Catholics - One Bread One Body, but I am not so familiar with that one. We do welcome Catholic visitors in the EO forum as well, The Ancient Way.
I took a look at 'One Bread One Body' and that looks good. Thanks for the other suggestions. I have read quite a bit of the Fathers, mostly the Greek ones, so Orthodoxy seems almost home. I'll look at the 'Traditional Theology' one as well. I know how to be polemical, but I'd rather not. It does not seem to advance the process of both sides coming to the same truth very well. And there is such an urgent need for us to all get to that same truth. So true with Catholics and Orthodox in particular.
 
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I took a look at 'One Bread One Body' and that looks good. Thanks for the other suggestions. I have read quite a bit of the Fathers, mostly the Greek ones, so Orthodoxy seems almost home. I'll look at the 'Traditional Theology' one as well. I know how to be polemical, but I'd rather not. It does not seem to advance the process of both sides coming to the same truth very well. And there is such an urgent need for us to all get to that same truth. So true with Catholics and Orthodox in particular.
Glad I could help! :)

Btw, I meant that TT is not meant to be polemical, but respectful to one another. I may not be expressing myself in the best way - I'm a bit under the weather. Glad you checked into the forums, and hopefully you can find other places you like as well. :)
 
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Chevy,

Welcome on board. It's good to see you here. You and I were both on that old forum that will remain anonymous but I'm pleased to see you have had your season of retreat during your summer and now into autumn (spring for me Down Under).

As for youth keeping the faith, my observation is that one of the greatest challenges is to answer their questions - the penetrating ones - about the faith. In addition, whatever is taught in Christian schools should help equip them in apologetics for the hostile world of the university (if they want that advanced education) or the workplace. I know that my youth group (many moons ago) did not prepare me for the antagonism of the university's real world.

Some of those penetrating questions could be:
  • Why is there so much evil in the world?
  • If God is in control of the world (e.g. Ps 115:3; Matt 19:26; Eph 3:20), why does he allow ISIL, rape, murder, mass shootings in college class rooms, etc?
  • How is it possible for the bloody death of Jesus 2000 years ago to deal with sin and evil?
I'm pleased to see you here. I've experienced many of your reasoned and compassionate discussions over the years.

Blessings,
Oz
 
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I was a long term member of another forum which got a little too hostile for me to want to post there any longer. It became open season on believing Christians by some of the atheists and agnostics who were members there. So I have enjoyed a summer away from all of that. It was a great summer. Lots of time outdoors. But now it's autumn. Some of the other refugees from that forum have asked me about starting a new forum, but I'm not all that interested in reinventing such a thing, particularly if it already exists. Starting a forum is actually technically complex, not to mention the day to day of running such a thing. I am too faint of heart for that. So here I am, toe in the local water, to see what this forum is like. Just reading posts it seemed OK so I thought I would try a bit of interaction. If it goes well ....

I am a Catholic, a Christian that can say the Nicene Creed (and the Apostle's Creed and the Quicunque Vult) without mental reservation. I pray and read the Bible. I do like to discuss matters of the faith and am especially happy to see thoughtful expression of differences. The less thoughtful, the less interested. What's that overused old word? Dialogue? Yeah. If someone is interested in that, I can get interested. Something where both can grow, hopefully in the same direction. I am in no way perfect and can sometimes be snippy or snide or ... what's the word ... snarky. Oh but never here. I totally promise. At least for now.

I guess one thing I would like to hear about is ideas on educating Christian youth in our rapidly changing society. My father was a public school teacher and he insisted on my brother and I being educated outside of the public school system. I went to a private school and remained Catholic. He went to a Catholic school and now never darkens the door of a Catholic church. My children went to Catholic schools and both my wife and I were well pleased with the particular schools we sent them to. Both of them have strong faith. Now my daughter has her oldest in a Catholic preschool. I know a person who started a Christian school, also folks who home school, folks who teach in the public schools, folks whose children attended or attend public schools. I know of good public schools, a range of Catholic schools from superlative to deficient, and a bunch of charter and private schools of varying philosophies.

Oh, and having watched pope Francis navigate the minefields in Cuba and at the White House I have a new respect for him. His visit to the Little Sisters of the Poor in Washington right after the White House was rich beyond words. At the White House president Obama spoke glowingly to Francis about religious freedom. The Little Sisters seem to experience the weight of the administration a bit differently than Obama would have us believe. So Francis dropped in on them to encourage them. Bravo.
You are most welcome here.....
 
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As for youth keeping the faith, my observation is that one of the greatest challenges is to answer their questions - the penetrating ones - about the faith. In addition, whatever is taught in Christian schools should help equip them in apologetics for the hostile world of the university (if they want that advanced education) or the workplace. I know that my youth group (many moons ago) did not prepare me for the antagonism of the university's real world.
I had a tiny bit of the old Baltimore Catechism as a youth before they replaced it with hip new mush. So I finished high school and entered college with a considerable deficit in theological knowledge. But I had some good God given instincts and God was busy in seeking me out. My godparents gave me a Bible in my senior year of high school and I ran into InterVarsity Christian Fellowship as a college freshman. That crew were a prayerful lot and did believe that there were good answers to penetrating questions. So I was able to ask the questions and between them and a really first class library at Washington University, I was able to dig up answers.

My children did go to a sound Catholic high school where the religion was taught astoundingly well. No half-baked mush. Solid Bible and Catholic theology and apologetics and hymnology and liturgy. They have both grown up faithful. But I have seen so many others of their ages have so much trouble after having gone to the public schools. People whose parents were good caring Christian folks. It has been painful to watch and interact with. Something is failing badly that these kids are clobbered by drugs, satanism, violence, nihilism, divorce and single parenting, all as a sad new cultural norm. I don't know how to make that better, nor to make it easier for the next generation starting in many cases from a worse base.
 
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I had a tiny bit of the old Baltimore Catechism as a youth before they replaced it with hip new mush. So I finished high school and entered college with a considerable deficit in theological knowledge. But I had some good God given instincts and God was busy in seeking me out. My godparents gave me a Bible in my senior year of high school and I ran into InterVarsity Christian Fellowship as a college freshman. That crew were a prayerful lot and did believe that there were good answers to penetrating questions. So I was able to ask the questions and between them and a really first class library at Washington University, I was able to dig up answers.

My children did go to a sound Catholic high school where the religion was taught astoundingly well. No half-baked mush. Solid Bible and Catholic theology and apologetics and hymnology and liturgy. They have both grown up faithful. But I have seen so many others of their ages have so much trouble after having gone to the public schools. People whose parents were good caring Christian folks. It has been painful to watch and interact with. Something is failing badly that these kids are clobbered by drugs, satanism, violence, nihilism, divorce and single parenting, all as a sad new cultural norm. I don't know how to make that better, nor to make it easier for the next generation starting in many cases from a worse base.

Chevy,

Thanks for sharing your personal journey. IVCF in the USA has sure done a superb job in helping to equip believers on campus. However, I'm of the view that that should be a part of the equipping ministry of the the church (Eph 4:11-14 ESV) in providing apologetics courses to deal with on-campus and mass media attacks on the faith.

I'm not surprised when youth go to secular high school and then off to secular university without the armour of God and apologetic defenses, that they fall away. They are often devastated by the horrendous attacks on the faith. That's what happened to me in university. God was gracious and brought me back. But even a master's degree from an evangelical seminary didn't provide the apologetic defense that I needed. I've had to equip myself with apologetic responses to the issues of the day.

Oz
 
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I was a long term member of another forum which got a little too hostile for me to want to post there any longer. It became open season on believing Christians by some of the atheists and agnostics who were members there. So I have enjoyed a summer away from all of that. It was a great summer. Lots of time outdoors. But now it's autumn. Some of the other refugees from that forum have asked me about starting a new forum, but I'm not all that interested in reinventing such a thing, particularly if it already exists. Starting a forum is actually technically complex, not to mention the day to day of running such a thing. I am too faint of heart for that. So here I am, toe in the local water, to see what this forum is like. Just reading posts it seemed OK so I thought I would try a bit of interaction. If it goes well ....

I am a Catholic, a Christian that can say the Nicene Creed (and the Apostle's Creed and the Quicunque Vult) without mental reservation. I pray and read the Bible. I do like to discuss matters of the faith and am especially happy to see thoughtful expression of differences. The less thoughtful, the less interested. What's that overused old word? Dialogue? Yeah. If someone is interested in that, I can get interested. Something where both can grow, hopefully in the same direction. I am in no way perfect and can sometimes be snippy or snide or ... what's the word ... snarky. Oh but never here. I totally promise. At least for now.

I guess one thing I would like to hear about is ideas on educating Christian youth in our rapidly changing society. My father was a public school teacher and he insisted on my brother and I being educated outside of the public school system. I went to a private school and remained Catholic. He went to a Catholic school and now never darkens the door of a Catholic church. My children went to Catholic schools and both my wife and I were well pleased with the particular schools we sent them to. Both of them have strong faith. Now my daughter has her oldest in a Catholic preschool. I know a person who started a Christian school, also folks who home school, folks who teach in the public schools, folks whose children attended or attend public schools. I know of good public schools, a range of Catholic schools from superlative to deficient, and a bunch of charter and private schools of varying philosophies.

Oh, and having watched pope Francis navigate the minefields in Cuba and at the White House I have a new respect for him. His visit to the Little Sisters of the Poor in Washington right after the White House was rich beyond words. At the White House president Obama spoke glowingly to Francis about religious freedom. The Little Sisters seem to experience the weight of the administration a bit differently than Obama would have us believe. So Francis dropped in on them to encourage them. Bravo.

Hello, Chevy. Good to see you here!

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