Read a book called 'real marriage' by mark and grace driscoll.
The truth about sex, friendship and dating.
Basically if you married, their advice is to go on date nights. Ok.
Also, go to biblical counselling a lot and go to church. If you 'unchurched' its bad.
It doesnt say how they met. Mark was into inappropriate content and grace was sexually abused. So they were made for each other. Or something. I dont know, their marriage didnt sound like fun at all.
The message, married people need Jesus more than single people cos they end up hating each other if hes not in the midst of them.