Hello all, i come to yall hoping that someone can help me to better understand why my wife has become a controlling and abusive towards me. We have been married for ten years , the first two were awesome! Then she begin to hit and yell at me when she was angry or wanted something done. After not getting the response from that she thought she would, she started goin to the gym every night for 3 or 4 hours, after a few months she started to show muscles. Ive always been kinda small at 5-9...140 lbs, she is also 5-9 but she weighed 212 lbs when we met, she is still about 200lbs but today its huge solid muscle!! Now after 7 yrs of being bigger and stronger than me im not much more than a servant to her! She tell me she loves me and for the most part i beleive her and 50% of the time we are a normal couple, but when she wants something done like house work or such she demands i do it or she will hurt me! And that has happened many times....i do love her and want to be with her but im afraid she could kill me easily and not really mean too because she is so strong!! Please anybody what can i do to get the sweet woman i married back...