I've been married for 11 years and we have two children. About 3 years ago, I was going through a tough time and u kissed a man who I've know for 20 years, it was only a kiss and I regretted it. I confessed to a fellow Christian and we prayed about it and i said sorry to God, but never told my husband. Now another Christian knows and I feel that she is threatening me to tell my husband if I don't and she also has told leadership. I don't feel that my husband needs to know as it was a long time ago but feel I don't have any choice.