I recently got engaged to a man I've been dating off and on for a month. He's a Christian, as am I. But lately he's been doing and saying things that lead me into lust, which I don't like and I don't know how to respond. I set a boundary, saying I didn't want him kissing me until we got married if that was what God wanted. At first, he said this was all right with him. Now, he's all over me. He's kissing and touching me inappropriately. He also just revealed that the ring he gave me, which is a lovely pearl ring, he had actually picked out for another woman whom he dated before me. I'm not sure how I feel about even wearing this ring now. Nor do I feel good about being with him. I'm uncomfortable and I feel like Achan in the Bible. Am I holding on to something I should let go of? I feel like engagement should be something to be excited about, joy and peace, but all I feel is trepidation and fear. I just don't know if this is me having an off day or if this is a legitimate reason to be concerned. Please pray that the Lord will show me what to do - and show him as well. I don't want a relationship that isn't meant to happen.