I live with family members that talk about me to other relatives. They call me unattractive and are judgmental including my mother. She talks about me to my aunt. When I confront her she denies everything and so does my aunt and brother. Its like they take great satisfaction in seeing me emotionally drained and controlling my thoughts of them. I'm so confused; she tells me she loves me and then talks negatively to my aunt about me and even mumbles negatively to herself. I also deal with teasing at school. I have dealt with it since middle school and continue to be ostracized and made fun of for my appearance. I have literally no friends because people judge me before they meet me. I don't know what to do. I attend Community college and major in premed/biology. I plan on transferring to a 4 year institution afterwards and then med school. Even if I become successful I feel my relatives wouldn't care. I honestly think they would say "It doesn't matter she is not attractive" or still ask that annoying question "Does she have a husband or boyfriend?".
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Hello and welcome -- please note that this forum is for introductions only.
You may want to look into the Christian Advice forum, where more people would see your question.
I hope you find what you're looking for.
You may want to look into the Christian Advice forum, where more people would see your question.
I hope you find what you're looking for.
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Nice to meet you.
The best revenge against people like this is to go on to have a happy, successful life. Work hard, set goals and get yourself to med school, and then don't look back. Ignore the negativity; become who you are meant to be.
I wish you well.
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