What You Are Wanted For?

Making flat tires and cleaning up the toilet when it is broke. In my last house we had a toilet that just always had a stoppage and you had to remove the toilet and all the can't use the word here got out and someone had to clean it up. My ex said: oh I'll go to the shop to buy some cleaning agent, you go clean that up.
That's an amazing quality my dad has, he always does the dirty work, clean up shoes when the neighbour dog dropped something. I guess I inherited that quality.

My ex later said that one of the reasons he dated me was: she knows how to clean up, cook and everything and has a job and is used to doing it by herself. So those are qualities I don't want to be wanted for, just so he can sit and play WOW.

That's an impossible question. I could say something like "Me being so good looking" but fact is I like them to like me for my looks because it means I am good looking.

I could say "that I am so nice" but once again I like being known for being nice.

All of my good qualities are set out in the open like a trap to pounce on any unsuspecting woman.

Now its my bad qualities that I try to cover up.

Tom Mix said:

All of my good qualities are set out in the open like a trap to pounce on any unsuspecting woman.

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Hahahahahahaha

I think I want a guy that wants my qualities. A guy can love the way I clean and I wouldn't be offended, unless he abused the quality.

If a guy loves me because I am always so willing to help, that's great. But if he loves me because of that reason so that he can always get me to do stuff for him so he doesn't have to do it.... Then I wouldn't want to be wanted for that. If he just loves that I am willing to help because he thinks that is a wonderful quality, then I wouldn't mind him wanting me for that.

It's just when they abuse the qualities.

KandiJo said:

I think I want a guy that wants my qualities. A guy can love the way I clean and I wouldn't be offended, unless he abused the quality.

If a guy loves me because I am always so willing to help, that's great. But if he loves me because of that reason so that he can always get me to do stuff for him so he doesn't have to do it.... Then I wouldn't want to be wanted for that. If he just loves that I am willing to help because he thinks that is a wonderful quality, then I wouldn't mind him wanting me for that.

It's just when they abuse the qualities.

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Yes that's what I meant. You also have a good quality of wording things.

Messy said:

Yes that's what I meant. You also have a good quality of wording things.

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Thank you. I got that feeling from your post as well!

Messy said:

Hahahahahahaha

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Finally, somebody who gets me. Wish you live in Middle America.

I can honestly say that I understand the question, but I don't know how to apply it to my own life.

It's not a quality but I don't want to be wanted for the people I know. Having networks is one thing but lying to someone and trying to use them to get to the other people they know sucks.

I think that this is an excellent question to take into consideration. I honestly hate feeling wanted for only a few things or reasons, be it a certain quality of my personality, beliefs, or appearance. I have felt this way before from men, and it turns me off. I wish to be desired for everything about me (even while knowing my faults), not just for a few certain specific reasons. For example, when someone focuses solely on certain aspects of my religious beliefs, but takes no interest or consideration for my goals in life, things that excite me, or such, it leaves much to be desired.

My hide.

Yes, I know everyone wants leather.... but.... I will NOT be made into a coat.

If I had money, I'd say that. But I don't.

My ability to write gibberish.

The only thing I really thought about when reading the OP is how women with very large breasts often experience being wanted for that, but who really wants to be seen as just a set of breasts?

My manly Roman nose, my Semitic cheeks and eyelids and my English hair..

redblue22 said:

What are some good qualities that you do NOT want to be wanted for? (by opposite sex)

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I am a very handsome man, who has no interest in a relationship. It is hard to talk in a mixed group without being noticed in that way. Women come to talk to me for reasons other than I would rather they talked. So for me, that's not a good quality I don't think because it detracts from the important things

I'm still trying to establish what my good qualities ACTUALLY are...

For my what?