fromtheAsh
That one girl from that one website.
Honestly, it sounds a bit creepy to me. I mean, you haven't really had any face-to-face interactions with her. Plus, Facebook? Really?
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Sure but zxcv is depressed and the way he talks he could be autistic and I think he needs some encouragement and a hug before giving him a tip to stand up and know who he is in Christ. Well ray of sun was a ray of sun in his thread.Any man that can bounce back from a divorce at the age of 28, with a positive and productive attitude towards life, deserves my respect. It's about the worst thing anybody can go through, and to deal with it in the way Darth has, is commendable. I don't think I've heard him whine about it even once - so of course I'm going to respond to *this* thread in a positive manner. He doesn't need a kick up the ass, because he's already done that himself.
That's not to take anything away from zxcv - and we shouldn't respect him any less, but with the amount of threads he's posted, where he has portrayed himself in a very negative light, I felt as if a spot of tough love was in order. Self pity will not help anything - it'll only make it worse. Hence why most of us have tried to light a fire under him.
One of my best friends will always give me a verbal slap to the face, when she knows I'm being a muppet. She certainly won't feel sorry for me if I'm being self deprecating. She'll tell me - in not so many words, that I'm being an idiot. And that level of honesty is why we're friends.
So why mollycoddle people with what they want to hear, when they're being self destructive? You're surely just feeding into their pity? No?
Sure but zxcv is depressed and the way he talks he could be autistic and I think he needs some encouragement and a hug before giving him a tip to stand up and know who he is in Christ. Well ray of sun was a ray of sun in his thread.
Suppose out of the blue you receive a PM on Facebook from a guy you've never had a personal interaction with, at most you've had 1-2 short exchanges in the past but they were very clinical in nature.
Suppose then that in this new message, this guy—whom all you really know is that you went to high school together (which was 10 years ago), plus whatever information is available on his profile—confesses that he's had a crush on you since high school and was wondering if you would be interested in having coffee sometime.
I would be confused because he doesn't know me. We've only interacted once or twice in our lives, and our only connection is attending the same school a decade ago? Nope.Would you feel creeped out? Flattered? Interested? Upset? Gassy? Curious?