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i have a serious problem and I don't know what is going to happen to me when I die. I believe in God and Jesus but as a woman I believe God created women to be a helper aka a sexual and manual slave. God didn't care about women but created them to solve the problem that Adam needed to reproduce. God gave the world to men, Adam names all the animals and then even names eve like a piece of cattle. Eve was suffering in misery even before the fall. Women had periods and childbirth was somewhat painful even before she ate the apple. Now I knowledge all this and accept it but what I can't accept that since I was created to give glory to men why do I have to worship God? Why do I have to go to the same hell as a man even though God did nothing for me but make me a slave? My biggest concern is since there is no marriage or childbirth why can't I go back to the rib from which I was taken no heaven or hell. I think it's cruel for God to force me to continue to exist if my purpose was to be a slave to man. Basically I don't want to go to heaven or hell when I die just go back to the rib I was taken. If I pray can God do this for me or will I go to hell for even asking?
 

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i have a serious problem and I don't know what is going to happen to me when I die. I believe in God and Jesus but as a woman I believe God created women to be a helper aka a sexual and manual slave. God didn't care about women but created them to solve the problem that Adam needed to reproduce. God gave the world to men, Adam names all the animals and then even names eve like a piece of cattle. Eve was suffering in misery even before the fall. Women had periods and childbirth was somewhat painful even before she ate the apple. Now I knowledge all this and accept it but what I can't accept that since I was created to give glory to men why do I have to worship God? Why do I have to go to the same hell as a man even though God did nothing for me but make me a slave? My biggest concern is since there is no marriage or childbirth why can't I go back to the rib from which I was taken no heaven or hell. I think it's cruel for God to force me to continue to exist if my purpose was to be a slave to man. Basically I don't want to go to heaven or hell when I die just go back to the rib I was taken. If I pray can God do this for me or will I go to hell for even asking?

Women are spoken of as human beings just as men are in the bible. Remember the woman caught in adultery in the new testament? Did Jesus speak to her like she was nothing but a rib, or a servant to man?
 
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I think God is so greedy to expect worship from a woman but I acknowledge I can't fight God and I have repented for my sin. So if God forgives those who repent than can God allow me to just go back to the rib from which I was taken?
Can you tell me why you believe the way you do? Yes, God created women to be a helper ... and says a woman with a meek and quiet spirit is of great value to him. Women certainly have an important place in God's kingdom, the scriptures are clear on that. So please, do share where your beliefs are coming from.
God bless you.
 
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Most bible passages say this and I am fully convinced that a God who can create you to be a sex slave, cause you to bleed monthly and have a parasite grow inside you and the pain and misery of childbirth can have my best interest at heart. I just don't know why I have to suffer for all eternity. I can endure a lifetime of this hell but to go to heaven to kee kee and worship that's not even my role in life.
 
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Can you tell me why you believe the way you do? Yes, God created women to be a helper ... and says a woman with a meek and quiet spirit is of great value to him. Women certainly have an important place in God's kingdom, the scriptures are clear on that. So please, do share where your beliefs are coming from.
God bless you.

Read 1 Corinthians 11:7-9
 
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Why do you feel the need to marry if you feel like you would be sex slave, suffer and bear children? Just wondering. God loves women and wants to save them. Sorry, I feel you have a perverted sense of God. Praying for peace for you that spirit that is tormenting you will leave. You need to feel the love of God, not fear in your life.
 
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My question is do you think God has enough mercy for a woman to allow her to go back to the rib? I can't have children, get married or have a husband to obey. Women were created to be a mans helper to bring glory to man not God.

I don't understand what you're asking here.
Why don't you feel you could get married? Also understand that there are plenty of women who don't get married, and don't even want to. God still loves them just the same.

Will I go to hell even though I repented ? I asked forgiveness for my sins but just would be horrified to go to heaven

Please explain what you mean by this. Why would you be horrified to go to heaven?
 
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i have a serious problem and I don't know what is going to happen to me when I die. I believe in God and Jesus but as a woman I believe God created women to be a helper aka a sexual and manual slave. God didn't care about women but created them to solve the problem that Adam needed to reproduce. God gave the world to men, Adam names all the animals and then even names eve like a piece of cattle. Eve was suffering in misery even before the fall. Women had periods and childbirth was somewhat painful even before she ate the apple. Now I knowledge all this and accept it but what I can't accept that since I was created to give glory to men why do I have to worship God? Why do I have to go to the same hell as a man even though God did nothing for me but make me a slave? My biggest concern is since there is no marriage or childbirth why can't I go back to the rib from which I was taken no heaven or hell. I think it's cruel for God to force me to continue to exist if my purpose was to be a slave to man. Basically I don't want to go to heaven or hell when I die just go back to the rib I was taken. If I pray can God do this for me or will I go to hell for even asking?


There is no sexual slave and such stuff in mainstream Christianity.
The more you avoid mainstream Christians, the more anguish you'll
experience. Get around better people and improve your life.
 
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I don't understand what you're asking here.
Why don't you feel you could get married? Also understand that there are plenty of women who don't get married, and don't even want to. God still loves them just the same.



Please explain what you mean by this. Why would you be horrified to go to heaven?

The bible says women were created for marriage and Are saved through child birth. I don't want to go to heaven, I just want to stop existing. I think God created women for suffering and misery and it would be messed up for him to be like gee sorry about creating you to be a slave and stuff...let me make it up to you you can worship me the person who caused your suffering in the first place! Um no thanks. I don't think it's fair.
 
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The bible says women were created for marriage and Are saved through child birth. I don't want to go to heaven, I just want to stop existing. I think God created women for suffering and misery and it would be messed up for him to be like gee sorry about creating you to be a slave and stuff...let me make it up to you you can worship me the person who caused your suffering in the first place! Um no thanks. I don't think it's fair.

May I ask about your background? I just want to understand where you’re coming from. That makes it easier to understand why you’re thinking these thoughts. Were you raised in a Christian home? Did you go to church? Have you ever been a member of any faith group?
 
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May I ask about your background? I just want to understand where you’re coming from. That makes it easier to understand why you’re thinking these thoughts. Were you raised in a Christian home? Did you go to church? Have you ever been a member of any faith group?

My background as in race/ethnicity? I am black. I was raised in a Christian home i guess. A highly dysfunctional one but my parents took me to church. I was mistreated by a church but I don't want to go into detail about what happened. It was just very bad and I never want to set foot in a church ever again. I study the bible on my own
 
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So in a nutshell do you think I can return to non existence? If I repent of my sin? Please say yes I need atleast that comfort

There is no non existence, no matter what.
 
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My background as in race/ethnicity? I am black. I was raised in a Christian home i guess. A highly dysfunctional one but my parents took me to church. I was mistreated by a church but I don't want to go into detail about what happened. It was just very bad and I never want to set foot in a church ever again. I study the bible on my own

I'm sorry you were mistreated in the church. I can understand why you would have negative feelings about the church as a result. But please keep in mind that God is who you want to focus on when trying to learn about Him. I know that sounds obvious, but I’ve met many people who see God through the people who follow, or claim, to follow Him. Christians are often a bad image of who God is. We’re commanded to follow His son Jesus Christ and to be imitators of Him, but we often fail at that. As a result, we become stumbling blocks to those who are wanting to follow Him.
 
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So what will happen to me now?

That’s really up to you. I would suggest you continue reading God’s word, and join a fellowship of believers. It doesn’t have to be a church, but it could be a bible study group. They can help you.
 
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