What did you do with your letters and photos from
a former love?
Do you feel guilty for having them if you are married?
a former love?
Do you feel guilty for having them if you are married?
Let by-gones be by-gones.
Why keep love letters, etc from someone who isn't your husband? The only reason I can see is that there may be some degree of attachment / feelings left towards that person. That is natural and understandable, but now you have joined yourself in marriage to another and your attentions should be towards him, forsaking all others.
Keeping these things could cause your husband sadness, jealousy, envy, etc if he discovers your still holding onto them. Why hold onto them? Because you value them? What about him he will wonder.
I can see no good in keeping them and so my council is to you to get rid of it all.
God bless.
P.S. I am not questioning your loyalty to him.
Ditto to all of the above. It is good that you question keeping them. Praying for you to be able to let those items go gracefully.Let by-gones be by-gones.
Why keep love letters, etc from someone who isn't your husband? The only reason I can see is that there may be some degree of attachment / feelings left towards that person. That is natural and understandable, but now you have joined yourself in marriage to another and your attentions should be towards him, forsaking all others.
Keeping these things could cause your husband sadness, jealousy, envy, etc if he discovers your still holding onto them. Why hold onto them? Because you value them? What about him he will wonder.
I can see no good in keeping them and so my council is to you to get rid of it all.
God bless.
P.S. I am not questioning your loyalty to him.
What did you do with your letters and photos from
a former love?
Do you feel guilty for having them if you are married?
Get rid of them. You know that nothing good can come from hanging onto them.
* I know of some who keep photos of former loves because they have children together.