Avniel
Doing my part each day by being the best me
- Jun 11, 2010
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It's not his fault it isn't fair he didn't decide he was going to be a male. You said you're unwilling to have your tubes tide how can you want someone to go through what you're unwilling to.Thanks everyone for your input. It did help me realize that my motives are probably centered around feeling a little resentful that I feel like I have already been through so much physically and that in my mind this would be "fair", however you're correct. you can't force someone to do something they don't want to do.
There are so many other methods to not getting pregnant that don't involve snipping anything.
Is it possible that you are resentful of the pain and labor you have been through? Do you feel it's only right he endures some of this so it's fair?
To be mad at someone due to not being willing to do a procedure doesn't seem selfless and about the marriage.
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