For Guys: Dating 'older' women

[twnsrkr]

Haha. I'd go after her. Smaller age differences don't bother me at all

 

[TravelerFarAwayFromHome]

Say that a woman is about two to five years older than you, and you're totally interested in her.

Would you go after her or be creeped out and call yourself a cougar chaser?

LOL

ONLY two to five years older?

anyone who would call you a cougar chaser is clearly either one, incredibly immature or two, jealous because they cant get a date!

seriously, this is your life, are you going to let other 's stupidity decide how you are going to live?

 

[Purge187]

I'd actually prefer an older woman, because they have experience and maturity. Or at least they should.

 

[AmericanSamurai]

 

[Messy]

Or at least they should.

I had one older one and two younger ones. Those two thought what you think, but the reason I fell for a younger one was because I'm a bit immature. The older guy didn't like that in the end.
The others didn't too. They thought I'd take care of them, that was stupid.

 

[sparkydave]

I wouldn't sweat it. One of my friends is married to a lady 16 years older than he is, they've been married for 21 years, and they have a 19 year old son. She was 39 and he was 23 when they married. You wouldn't guess it though, they showed me their wedding pictures and you might guess that she was 26.

 

[Jupiter Drops]

I wouldn't sweat it. One of my friends is married to a lady 16 years older than he is, they've been married for 21 years, and they have a 19 year old son. She was 39 and he was 23 when they married. You wouldn't guess it though, they showed me their wedding pictures and you might guess that she was 26.

And wouldn't you know it, we have a meme for this:

Anyway that's a pretty amazing story.

 

[Maka]

I love this kid!!!

 

[Maka]

I love this kid!!! lol the look on his face!

 

[Sketcher]

I would have no problem with it if I were into casual flings, but I'm not. I look at it with the long term in mind.

 

[2bituser]

Say that a woman is about two to five years older than you, and you're totally interested in her.

Would you go after her or be creeped out and call yourself a cougar chaser?

Two to five years is fine, though it's also about maturity. If I feel the girl is way more experienced and smarter and mature than me, then I feel inadequate for her whether or not she's a couple of years younger or older.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Nope...I've done it in he past, and with the exception of one or two women I've already fallen for, I stopped even looking at older women; younger women are just better all around

 

[TheApostleJohn]

I'm fine with dating someone up to around 10 years older.

 

[eman12yeshua]

hi i'm just new here and i got interested with the topic of dating older women, how about if you are in love to a woman who is 15 years older than you? honestly that's where i'm at right now, and we share the same faith as well

 

[MiniEmu]

Does the age of an individual matter if you are not acting contrary to the law?

People can say what they wish, but it still comes down to how two people interact and their desires for the relationship.

And the law. Sometimes.

 

[Miss Spaulding]

hi i'm just new here and i got interested with the topic of dating older women, how about if you are in love to a woman who is 15 years older than you? honestly that's where i'm at right now, and we share the same faith as well

Is the feeling mutual?

And assuming you're 21 or older, I see no problem with it. Just be sure to understand and always remember that far more quickly than you realize this woman will begin to look her age and that's where you need to examine yourself and determine whether your love for her is indeed true and unconditional. If it is, you shouldn't have a problem - in the question of love.

 

[Messy]

hi i'm just new here and i got interested with the topic of dating older women, how about if you are in love to a woman who is 15 years older than you? honestly that's where i'm at right now, and we share the same faith as well

My ex is 12 years older. It doesn't matter as long as she respects you and doesn't look down on you.

 

[Gnarwhal]

hi i'm just new here and i got interested with the topic of dating older women, how about if you are in love to a woman who is 15 years older than you? honestly that's where i'm at right now, and we share the same faith as well

Hey, it's your life. But 15 years would be pushing it for me, I don't know if I would do much more than 10, if that.

 

[toastface_grillah]

My ex is 12 years older. It doesn't matter as long as she respects you and doesn't look down on you.

This. This, and as long as the two of you are in similar places in life, so that one person doesn't feel like the other is dragging them down.

 

[HotRhymez]

I would definitely go for it. I admit that this is kinda my thing. Though replace "2 to 5" with "15 to 20".