LilLamb29, I'm so sorry for your daughter's experience and can appreciate your strong testimony.
I believe in Yahweh's divine protection also very much but things do happen to Christians. There are numerous Biblical examples. I mean look at Paul. I've found King David's example to be very helpful. When David and his men returned to camp and found their dwellings burnt and their families gone and the guys who just fought with him talked of killing him, Scripture states then David encouraged himself in the Lord. (I Sam 30). It doesn't say how but we all know that David was a worshiper - He worshipped Yahweh. Noteworthy to me is that only after he encouraged himself in the Lord, did he asks Yahweh what to do about the situation. What did he realize? Was it that he knew he could hear Yahweh better after focusing on Him instead of the problem? Something else? Also, he was submitted and didn't assume he already knew what Yahweh would want him to do.
Scripture says to forgive so we'll be forgiven (Luk 6). I really need His forgiveness so I have to forgive. It's not easy. I find I have to pray it many, many times before I even get close. Someone said when you can think of the person or event and there's no pain, then the forgiveness is complete. Of course, we know we can't do it without Yahweh's help. As someone posted the other day, there's nothing in Scripture for us to do that we can't do with Yahweh's help. We can forgive because Phil 4:13 says we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us.