My fiacne told me shes against kissing before marriage. I am not sure how to approach this with her. Its not a sin in the bible to kiss. I do realize it can lead to other tempting things. But it doesn't mean you should avoid it. I might go out of the house and be tempted by any number of things, but I still go out. I love being romantic, which means I love kissing.
And since she lives far in another country it could mean 7 years at the most before we marry and finally get to kiss. I am not sure how I feel about that. I respect her opinion but at the same time its not fair when your in a relationship. I could tell her no hugs, gifts or anything of that nature because it might make her happy and tempted to do other things. But obviously that would not be fair to her and have no biblical merit.
So what should I do? Should I even say anything to her about it or just let it go? I won't leave her over something so petty but it still bugs me a bit.
And since she lives far in another country it could mean 7 years at the most before we marry and finally get to kiss. I am not sure how I feel about that. I respect her opinion but at the same time its not fair when your in a relationship. I could tell her no hugs, gifts or anything of that nature because it might make her happy and tempted to do other things. But obviously that would not be fair to her and have no biblical merit.
So what should I do? Should I even say anything to her about it or just let it go? I won't leave her over something so petty but it still bugs me a bit.