Texas Lynn
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That may be your belief, but my experience is that I've never either learned or chosen who to be attracted to, and nor has anyone else that I know.
As far as gay men and women are concerned, I find it very difficult to believe that they would deliberately choose to be attracted to people of the same gender as themselves. Many testimonies I've heard and read from gay men and women tell of realising, normally at some point in their mid-teens, that they're attracted to people of the same gender as themselves, and often being in family situations where to be open and honest about this would have led (and sometimes did lead) to unpleasant reactions from family members who were, if not outright homophobic, at least not ready to accept that their children were in any different from the societal norm. And although society as a whole has become more accepting of gay people over the past couple of decades, there have always been elements of society who have been hostile towards gay men and women. Do you honestly believe, if such attraction is "learned and a choice", that people would deliberately choose to go down such a difficult path instead of taking the easier option?
David.
Thank you for invoking a little common sense into the discussion.
There needs to be an updated version of the joke about the Black Man praying and asking God "Why?" about his racial characteristics to which God replies how these factors contribute to his survival in the African environment, to which the punchline is the guy asking, exasperated, "Then what am I doing in Cleveland, Ohio?" It could be done with an LGBT person asking things secondary about LGBT culture...Lance asking "Oh, Lord, why do I love the theater?" or Deb asking, "Lord, why do I have motorcycle grease all over my jeans?"...the punchline could be, "Then what am I doing in Corbin , Kentucky?"
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