I have been falsely accused of something....

aflower4God

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hi all!

i was on a VERY NON-Christian message board and I was asking alot of questions about well known to the pubic person. Anyway, to my knowledge I really thought that this message board was created for that very purpose. Anyway, this one nasty person accused me of being something that i am 100% not!!!! I feel really sick now and I feel like crying. Anyway, here is what I did, i went to that message board and deleted all of my post that pertains to this well known person, why cause I do NOT like to be harassed and called something that is completely opposite of me! I feel like I am gonna get sick because of this libelous accusations that were made against me. I reported this person immediatly but usailly the mods there say put this person on ignore. they are not nearly as kind as the mods here!
Anyway, has anyone ever had to deal with this situation like this one? If so could you please give me some advice!

A side note: I wish that some people would learn that the internet should not be a place where as they go out of their way to deliberately try to hurt others. It is simple, if you do not like that person just do not post!!! And a word to anyone who is ""rookie" to CF, this place is probably one of the safest places to be because of the moderation staff!!!! And the members here seem to be alot more kinder to others!


Thank you friends!!!!:)
 

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It always hurts to be falsely accused.
And there are some people, I have discovered,
who go through life making life miserable for everybody else.

If you spent 6 months reading that person's posts,
I am sure that you would discover that they are constantly being mean wherever they go,
and no matter who they talk to.
It's a very valuable lesson to learn really.
There are people out there like that,
and every once in a while, we run into one of them.
 
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aflower4God

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It always hurts to be falsely accused.
And there are some people, I have discovered,
who go through life making life miserable for everybody else.

If you spent 6 months reading that person's posts,
I am sure that you would discover that they are constantly being mean wherever they go,
and no matter who they talk to.
It's a very valuable lesson to learn really.
There are people out there like that,
and every once in a while, we run into one of them.

Hi there sister you have a VERY good point here...I can tell ya I am never going back to that non-christian board at all!!!!

Thank you so much for posting!:hug:

It does stink to be falsely accused of anything and it can hurt even if it's a stranger on an internet board. Do keep in mind that it is just that though - an internet board. This will blow over and you will forget it. :)

I know you are very right sister. thank you for your kind words:hug:
 
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Hey Smilie, you are bigger than them.

Did you learn a lesson?

Gossip is always dangerous on a net of vipers. They said this and they said that, and I believe this and I believe that. It can get in into a lot of trouble.

IF you want to paddle around in a pit of vipers you will get bitten.

Just put it all behind you, because you allowed emotions to get to you and the tormentor will torment you because you have allowed fear to come into your life. Tell it to go in Jesus' Name.

Submit to our Lord Jesus Christ and the devil and his forces will flee.

Be wise as a serpent next time and be gentle as a dove.

Learn from this experience and forgive them and love them.

Boy, our Lord Jesus Christ hung on the Cross for you, and can you imagine the pain that he went through and suffered by being falsely accused.

That is what happends when you are "unequally yoked with unbelievers".

Love in Christ
 
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FallingWaters

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Hi there sister you have a VERY good point here...I can tell ya I am never going back to that non-christian board at all!!!!

Thank you so much for posting!:hug:

I know you are very right sister. thank you for your kind words:hug:
You're welcome.

What's really funny is that I have learned this valuable lesson by coming to CF every day for the past year.
I have "met" all different kinds of people.
Sweet people are always sweet,
and mean people are always mean.
It's not me, it's them.
 
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In 7th grade this girl that has had a crush on me since Kindergarten thought she could get my attention by saying I threatened to rape her. I was interrogated by the school and police for a total of about 5 hours at the school, and they then had me arrested to "teach me a lesson". Throughout this entire time no one thought that they should bother to call my parents. They then suspended me for a week so I could "cool off" and then everyone was making fun of me and treating me like I was a rapist.

But it put me in an amazing position. Suddenly I had complete control over the entire school district because what happened was completely illegal and could easily be brought to trial in a multi million dollar law suit. The girl who did it was arrested for filing false criminal charges and expelled from the school, not to mention discredited for the rest of her life. The teacher who made insulting comments to me about it was fired one year short of being able to retire, and the school has never given me any trouble again.

It was an amazing blessing in disguise
 
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aflower4God

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In 7th grade this girl that has had a crush on me since Kindergarten thought she could get my attention by saying I threatened to rape her. I was interrogated by the school and police for a total of about 5 hours at the school, and they then had me arrested to "teach me a lesson". Throughout this entire time no one thought that they should bother to call my parents. They then suspended me for a week so I could "cool off" and then everyone was making fun of me and treating me like I was a rapist.

But it put me in an amazing position. Suddenly I had complete control over the entire school district because what happened was completely illegal and could easily be brought to trial in a multi million dollar law suit. The girl who did it was arrested for filing false criminal charges and expelled from the school, not to mention discredited for the rest of her life. The teacher who made insulting comments to me about it was fired one year short of being able to retire, and the school has never given me any trouble again.

It was an amazing blessing in disguise

OH my goodness that is JUST AWFUL brother!!!!... I am glad that you are okay. Hugs to ya brother:hug:

I'm sorry! :hug:
I have been to message boards where a lot of people are mean. I usually just leave them and do not go back.

God bless ya sister, thank you for your kind words of support:hug:
 
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OH my goodness that is JUST AWFUL brother!!!!... I am glad that you are okay. Hugs to ya brother:hug:



God bless ya sister, thank you for your kind words of support:hug:
Just have to be able to turn the tables and come out on top
 
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