The "brother" and "sister" thing is because we see each other as a Brother in Christ or a Sister in Christ, that goes for those in the BNP and those who have never went to a BNP function.
[That's fine. But you can see how an uninformed person, seeing a flyer advertising a religious event hosted by Sr. So-and-so, might be led to believe she's a nun.]
From what we've learned from retreat to retreat is that when you mix the young men and the young women together, they are very easily distracted by the other sex, and sometimes when the opposite sex is around some people just don't want to open themselves up.
[Yes, well, we were all adults, primarily married couples, and I think you'll agree that it can be distressing to hear one's wife weeping and not to be able to go to her.]
I believe that the different topics that they talk about during the Marian retreats are derived from different Catholic books and some books that are stories of Mary ... I'm not sure of the titles, but if I can get a list of them, I'll let you know.
[Thank you.]
The portion where you were led into the chapel with the Pieta is one of the solemn portions of the retreat where you get to meditate and pray. The music is there to help you focus on the Pieta and is also there to help you meditate and not let the other things going on around you distract you - it's basically your private time with Mary and her Son in the chapel.
[Was the "repeat after me" thing typical?]
Indifferentism ... hmmm what did that person say in regard to it? The BNP is open to all religions, you don't have to be Catholic to go, but we let the ones going that the retreat is based on the Catholic teachings. Maybe it was that one person's opinion??? Not sure.
[Me neither]
Do you have the details of your retreat? Year, number and where it was held? Maybe I can find out more information for you?
[It was held last February, I think, in Port Huron, MI.]
When it comes to addressing the questions, I've found that here in NY when there were questions in regards to the references and in regards to other parts of the talks it was answered.
[I'm glad you had a better experience with this aspect.]
Hopefully this answered some of your questions
[Yes, thank you very much]