A little talk
Posted 3rd September 2011 at 12:45 PM by tteague81
So I just had a little talk with my husband about some things. I don't know if it helped or not. Usually when I talk to him it just goes in one ear and out the other. He said that I can be rather intimidating sometimes. I don't see how. And he asked me if I'm so controlling because of my ex-husband. I asked him what I'm so controlling over and he said I got mad because he wouldn't give me his paycheck this past Tuesday. Ok, he babysits his nephew 3 to 4 days a week and gets paid like 75 to 100 bucks a week. I work my butt off at a sewing plant 5 days a week, have 88 bucks a week coming out for insurance for both of us, so I bring home like 223 a week. Our rent is 380 a month, our power ranges from 150 to 180 a month, water is 52 bucks, gas usually is 40 bucks a week, internet bill is 61 bucks a month, food is like 150 to 200 dollars a month or so... I guess he thinks I can pay all that by MYSELF. He likes to spend money. That's why I have always been in charge of the finances. If he was, we'd never have any money and nothing would be paid. I asked him what else I was controlling over. He said it was just little stuff that I do, which basically means, 'I can't think of anything else.' I told him we needed counseling. At least he agreed on that. Then he said we need couple counseling and individual counseling because we both have issues of our own. I told him that was a part of marriage, to talk to the other person about the issues that you have. He said sometimes you can only talk to someone who has a degree for them to help you. This man is gonna drive me insane. I have no idea what's going on in his head, and I guess I never will.
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